Seeing the Gaslight: A User’s Guide

Sara Ness
9 min readAug 31, 2020

Hey friends.

I am writing this post as a very unofficial, personal-experience public service guide. Having experienced gaslighting several times, both intentionally and unconsciously perpetrated, I wanted to write out a guide to help others who might be in this situation.

This guide covers:

  • Noticing the symptoms of being gaslit,
  • Choosing what to do about them,
  • AND how to recognise if you yourself are unintentionally lighting that fire.

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Sara Ness

I am an instigator of authenticity, ninja of connection, and awkward turtle of social situations. www.authrev.org