Why Social Norms Are Hard to Learn

Sara Ness
5 min readNov 3, 2021

Do you remember learning language for the first time?

The adults cooed over your first word as if you’d solved the Fermi paradox. They had infinite patience as you struggled to piece out the parts of the alphabet, solve the mystery of homonyms, and pronounce “chameleon”.

Language was a triumph, and we were still the true prizes. Then — as babyhood faded — things got harder.

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Sara Ness

I am an instigator of authenticity, ninja of connection, and awkward turtle of social situations. www.authrev.org